Her Perception killed the Relationship

He thought he had a perfect match. She was beautiful educated and well mannered. So he decided to give his all. He looked over her need to always remain fly in the latest outfits but the more he explored her mind he realized that she was more concerned about others perception of her life and how their life looked in pictures, on camera, and in front of the public. See she wanted to look the part and never desired to actually be the part. She was turned on by what others had to say like the "you guys look wonderful, and you make a good looking couple" that she was no longer in tuned to his desires to become intimate through communication. The nights he'd hold her turned into shopping for shoes and outfits for up coming events on the Internet. He could no longer walk out the house comfortable he became a reflection of her as if he was her trophy. He worked over time to make sure she had nice things and drove the best. One day he stopped and asked her "what about their relationship makes her smile." She responded "they way people react when we walk in the room." Everyone desires to be us because we look so good together." His response was "looks can be deceiving." She never caught on she asked him his opinion of an outfit she seen on Instagram for a Christmas dinner they were going to attend. That night as she sleep he woke up and wrote her a letter and this is what it said. 

" I love the thought of you. The thought that we would be. Just you and me. The thought that we could have a family and be happy with the simple things of life. But your perception of love and your want for everyone to love what they see when they look at us isn't what I imagined you'd be like. I can't live up to your perception of love. I'm sorry but your perception has killed this relationship."