Excuses are just Lies

On Monday morning when he wakes up he knows he has to go to work this week. As a matter of fact his whole week down to his haircut appointment and when he'll wash his car is already planned. See a man is a structured human being who knows what he wants and he is never afraid of commitment because he is committed to his job, going to see his mom, spending time with his children, buying a home, and he is committed to the time he'll spend with the guys. However, when it comes to you it seems like he can't commit to being consistent. Most women desire time but it seems he falls for the type of women that want his money.  Honestly, some men find it easier to buy things for a woman to make her happy rather than make time to spend quality time with her.  It's effortless and easy. I can tell you right now when he begin to say things like "I am so sorry I was very busy today" or I'm sorry I didn't have time to call you". Sadly, ladies these are lies that he's made you believe are his excuses. We live in a society where cell phone are like our heartbeat. There are to many social media apps that allow us to be plugged into society. If he can post on social media, view everyone's post, like and comment on social media then he definitely has time for you. Even if he doesn't have social media he can call you or text you at anytime he desire but he has to desire to keep you. So he has no excuses but a punch bowl full of lies that you've believed and allowed him to get away with. A man will not make excuses when he values what is in front of him. You aren't optional you are apart of his life, his plan,and his day. He makes sure he tells you good morning. He will find moments to text or call you during the day just either to ask you "wyd" or call you to say hi. He won't end his day until he knows how your day went and saying good night. Ladies, the problem is you allow men to make it with these lies watered down by excuses. I promise you ladies if you raise awareness to his excuses he'll either get it together or realize you can't be easily fooled.