When a real woman comes along

Ladies just because a man has great conversation doesn't mean he is actually ready to be the man he is talking about. You have yo understand we have hopes, plans,and desires but that doesn't mean that he is ready.  Love and people can hit you unexpectedly. A man can begin to prepare for a certain type of woman. He could be the type of man that's always dated women lower standards and realize that he desires better for himself.  So he begins to change of his qualifications because he now understands that he can attract a woman of high standards with conversation because that is what he desires however he is not prepared to keep her. He doesn't know how to mentally. So this why you find a lot of men that start dating a good woman better than the women they've dated and he reverses back to women whom standards are low and you then look at yourself as if you have done something wrong but you have not. Unfortunately, you've met him at the wrong time. 

So you may ask how do you handle this situation it's simple being the woman that you are let him know that you know that something is wrong with him. Offer to help him with his desires. For example, you can be a woman that's mentally stable and all of your ducks are in a row where his aren't (if the relationship is worth it) assist him because sometimes a man needs a woman that will help him without trying to recreate him. He just needs reassurance that he can do it. This happens a lot but a lot women don't understand what's going on so they explain what they know but not in a way to solve the issue because you approach is everything. 

Ladies when you are dealing with these type of men you have to know the level of the dating process or the relationship. You don't want to waste your time on a man with a fantasy to have a good woman but they aren't ready to settle down. A lot of women get hurt by men two aren't 100% ready to settle down . Women don't blame yourself and wonder if you are dating material. 

Guys, I will not leave you out. If you are in time in your life that you desire a good woman that will help you without making you feel like you are less of man. Just like you know if she is a good woman and you trust something within her don't allow pride to get in your way. Communicate where you are and this is when you'll appreciate her for where she is in life because she will not make you feel like you are less than a man. This will make you appreciate her more becaus she understand that a wise woman was brought into your life to make you better. Men you have to be man enough to want it.