Check Your Single Self

As a relationship expert one of my main questions I receive from single women is what am I doing wrong to be single when they thought they were preparing themselves for a husband properly. In my book The Relationship Guide I speak of many things that a woman should do to be found a wife for the man God has prepared for her. Sadly, so many women develop an intimate relationship with God they could be blessed with a man and before you know after he moves in or you two are in a serious relationship your relationship with God goes lacking. It's almost as God became your side dude. Scripture even says that we should put no one before God which is why so many women end up on my line or on my sofa trying to pick up the broken pieces because the relationship they had with man has now fell apart. 

It's very easy to have a relationship with God and keep relationship with your man. The first thing you must do is develop a true relationship with God and desire a man that loves God the way you love him. So when you pray he will not have a problem praying with you or going to bible study with you. It makes no sense to ask God to give you the desires of your heart and if you are delighting yourself in him a Godly relationship with a man should be met as well as your prayers of the career, car, and or goals you desire. Who you attract should be a reflection your prayers. 

Aside of preparing yourself spiritually make sure you can also be the women a man will find as a wife through your everyday living. How you clean and take care of your home. How you take care of you father and brothers. If you can't fix them a plate or listen to them give you leadership advice how can you listen to a man that you just met if you have no respect for the men in your family who you have grown up with all of your life. These are things a woman should check while checking herself on why she is single. 

Why do you want a man? What makes you feel like you just need a man. Is it for companionship? Are you lonely? Are you tried of being alone? Are you not happy alone? You have to learn to content by yourself. The bible says Godly contentment is great gain. You have to learn how to be happy with you dating yourself. If you go out to eat youaren't eating alone you are taking yourself out to eat. You aren't going to the movies alone you are taking yourself out to the movies. The fact that you can't take yourself out is why you feel so lonely and need someone else to take you out on a date. The need to be needed is not how you should be preparing yourself for a husband.

So there are so many red flags that you can give yourself and answer your own question of why you are still single. You, your relationship with God, and how you are preparing yourself is what you should improve to be a wife.