Failure to Communicate

Pillow thoughts:
So many people fall into relationships without a full understanding of the roles the play in each others life) Women think that because I've given you all of me. We are exclusive (Which should be true) however, if there was never communication you can not assume that he or she is desiring a relationship with you. The issue beings when assumptions begin. Here is the deal..unless you have gotten an understanding.. whatever happens happens. You can't feel used, unappreciated, or in any ill way because you never took the time to ask "What are we doing" the answer would of saved you the time for thinking they know your desiring a relationship.. when they just wanted you as a past time. Of course the number one way of not getting hurt is not giving it up and waiting until your married.  I Also realize that some of my readers fulfill there sexual needs and do so assuming the other partner is perceiving what you are perceiving. Bottom line, in all you do get an understanding.  I don't care if it's sexual or not. You always want to know their desires and goals when it comes to being with you. If you two are exclusive, open, etc..You are not wrong for wanting to know about your love life. If there is no communication or communication pushes them away, that is a serious indicator that you need to move around. On my ending note I really want you all to understand. Without an understanding.. you can get misunderstood and you can  hurt your own feelings. How can you hurt your own feeling..failing to communicate and automatically think they are feeling what you are feel..  This is Rachel G.. (for booking email rachelginc@gmail.com) social sites @i_amrachelg fb: Rachel G (Google:Rachel G)
Failure to Communicate