Single By Choice

Seeing that I have been faced with this conversation a lot lately. Although my personal life is not open for decision. I will say that I am not married. The question is normally asked how do I feel being alone or why am I always seen alone. A lot men think because a woman is alone because she can't find or seem to keep a man. I will speak for all women who think like myself, that is not true. When a good woman knows her worth and have been through things she doesn't jump into the arms of the next man that comes along. We don't care what company you own, where you live, who you know, or what you drive. What matters is what type of man are you. Are you a friend, and buddy, a lover, loyal..(need I go on..) Most women like this have been in love and hurt by love so they learn to pay closer attention to the men they come in contact with. Most of the time they hold up a wall which with time can come down but quickly ca come back. So this brings the question..Why do men question women like myself. The why are you single? Well women if I may I can answer for all of us. We are single because we first of all don't go looking for men. Secondly we are praying women that wait on God. I believe he can send a man to me way better than I can count on myself to pick one. A personal note: If a woman is doing great by herself then if a man is allowed in her life it is because not only are men doing something successful for themselves but because they're a great communicator. Most women that hold down their own want men that listen and communicate with them.. Buying nice things are great. But remember you should want a woman that can buy themselves what you buy them. So men if you want to expand the women you date to the women that have things going for themselves I hope you aren't selfish and like to communicate because it nothing after a long day to have someone to communicate with. Until then some women are single by choice! -Rachel G.