Whose fault is it anyway!

As we in bark the 18th day of 2011 what has changed in your life. I understand children are still finding themselves but should adults be doing the same thing. Since people want to complain about things that they can't change in other peoples lives such as favor, success, happiness, and etc. Why are you still complaining? If you are going to complain look in the mirror and complain about the things you have done wrong! Then look at yourself and say 'WHY AM I COMPLAINING ABOUT THINGS THAT I CAN CHANGE! Really WHOSE FAULT IS IT ANYWAY! When we began pre-school we really didn't know much at all but everyone started off at the same level. As we grew to middle school age some kids name was already moving up faster then they were moving up in grades as the one to watch. So by High School they were so suspect by teachers that they were trouble makers. But once you graduated you were on your own! Now you were in the same classes as your fellow peers so why are you mad at them and down talking them? When you had the same opportunity? I get stuck right here in thought every time because what they have done with their life is their fault so they shouldn't be judgmental toward what anyone is doing in life. Everyone was given the same choice but some used it wisely. Some people instead getting off a high horse and kicking pride to the curve seem to want to bully peoples success at an adult age. Although they don't think to stop that they are looking horrible thinking everything people say is centered toward them when in fact no one really cares to boast their childish ego. Where they are in life is their fault but the best thing about life is that it comes with change! The first step to change is always realizing whose fault it really is anyway! (Looking in the mirror and saying "Where I am in life is all my fault but as of today I will change it." Then change the people you are around because 9xs out of 10 they are not where they should be. Negative energy and positive energy will never get anywhere. Your life is your fault so instead of complaining and finding fault in everyone else success please make the correct changes in yours! STOP COMPLAINING ABOUT THE DISCUSSIONS YOU HAVE MADE ON YOUR OWN LIFE THAT YOU CAN CHANGE!!-Rachel G.