I am a woman of many thoughts and words. I try to think of things and subjects in all different types of view. Just to make people think and debt about the Matters of the Heart.. Seeing that it is so close to Valentines day I put a status post up that went as following: Well mistress its almost that time!! So what do yal settle for before or after valentines day!! Cause FYI: HE WILL BE WITH HIS WIFE ON THE 14th!! But "Singles Awareness Day" is on the 15th. <---- Celebrate the day cause if he ain't yours, your still single(Oops-you didn't know that) aww!! I'm Rachel G and I approve this message!! #GoodDay
Now the response and comments were great. Originally the subject was on the defense for the married woman. But as time went one it went to the wife needing to leave the husband. Now as a divorced woman I can say finding out that the man you marry has cheated and had an affair on you is a hard blow. Rather you chose to stay pr not is on you. Personally I left but everyone views and what women tolerate in a marriage is on them. Not wanting to get off subject so back on track. A woman should have the respect for herself, her family, her present, as well as her future to have a long term affair or any type of affair with a married man. Since my divorce I have encountered and received phone calls, emails, house visits from male and females trying to save their marriage. First of all ladies her is a FYI for you. Then man is not going to leave his home. It is never in his attentions to lose his family. In hoping he will get things on track before his wife gets fed up and leaves. The first thing a woman does is try to figure out if she is doing something wrong and how it can be fixed. Now you have a family and the other woman. I know different situations on affairs. From the hotel/motel meeting, to the parking the car in the garage cheating, to the switch car cheating.. But what takes the cake for me is the house key cheating.. After having a affair with the same person attachment comes along. I never had to wonder how the other woman felt on holidays I know from an exclusive conversation from a woman that has been having an affair with the same man for over 20 years. She said that she wanted more but learn to settle for what should get. He didn't love his wife and that he is only there until the kids grew up..Well I asked her about holidays and the joy of en-laws. She said the woman busted them years ago, had the kids so the kids knew of her. As fas as holidays they do the day before the holiday or after. He comes cooks for her family and friends. He even has a house key..Do you see something wrong with this picture.. Well 20yrs later he has not divorced his wife and she is still awaiting the moment which will be never. Honestly I think everyone goes through periods in their life what ever that period may be it should used as a constant reminder of what to do and what not to do. What to say and what not to say. Some opinions, statement, and views are better left alone if you have been on the other side of the bridge unless it is to help someone else. Hindrance is never an issue. You overcome by the blood of your testimony. But I hope this makes women and men think about the value of themselves and the courage to want better for your life..Thats all!
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